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Too Scared To Sleep | My Struggle With Night Terrors

January 14, 2018

 

I’ve never had a problem with drifting off to sleep but ever since I can remember I would always tell my family the strange dreams I had the night before, and when I hit my teenage years I started to get lucid dreams nearly every night. However, it wasn’t until five years ago I started to experience night terrors and sleep paralysis.

 

Night terrors usually occur during non-REM sleep and may be caused by a slight waking during the transition between sleep stages. For me, it started when I moved out into my first home with Jamie. I would often wake up in the night screaming or shouting because I think I’ve heard the front door open or  I can see thousands of spiders and insects climbing up the walls. After I’ve woken Jamie up with my constant fidgeting, mumbling or yelling I myself wake up and realise that yet again I’ve had a night terror. After this ordeal, it usually takes me a good hour or so to get back to sleep because I’m so scared as the visions I have during the night feel so real and they always leave me unsettled. 

 

A reoccurring night terror for me is what Jamie and I refer to as ‘the man in the room’. I often wake up screaming and shaking Jamie because I’m so convinced there is a man at the end of the bed or standing in the doorway, only to realise a few minutes later when I have come round to reality that actually there is no one there. The whole experience is extremely stressful and in the days after I end up worrying about going to bed especially if Jamie is out and I know I will be sleeping alone that evening.

 

When I go on holiday or I’m sleeping in an unfamiliar environment, I’m guaranteed to experience a night terror. It is as if I have a subconscious anxiety about sleeping in a different bed which results in multiple night terrors throughout the evening. It is a sleeping disorder that not only affects me but unfortunately affects Jamie as well and it feels as if I can’t do anything to stop it.

 

More recently I have had episodes of sleep paralysis. Sleep paralysis occurs during the stages of falling asleep or waking up and during these episodes, you find yourself temporarily unable to move or speak. You are aware of what is happening but your body is asleep. I usually find myself waking up choking or gasping for air because it feels like someone is strangling me or pushing down on my chest.  It only lasts a few minutes but I can honestly say it is much more terrifying than any night terror I have ever had. 

 

I’m not sure if this sleep paralysis or my night terrors will ever go away but here are some tips for coping with these sleeping disorders:

 

  • Avoid caffeine before bedtime.
  • Try and exercise during the day or even go for a walk before or after work. 
  • Create a bedtime ritual. I like to have a bath, use a facemask or a nice cleanser and then use a nice body moisturiser. Lately, I have been using the Lush lavender moisturiser called Sleepy which smells gorgeous and it is so relaxing.
  • Consider wearing a sleeping mask or pop earplugs in to avoid any outside noises or shadows waking you up. 
  • Try and turn your phone off before bedtime to allow you to unwind and not think about social media or work. 
  • Use essential oils or create a sleep pillow. I love sprinkling essential oils onto a piece of fabric you can even use a cotton muslin bag and fill it with dried lavender, rose petals or chamomile to create a herbal sleep pillow.
  • Try yoga or meditation. It can really help relax your mind and muscles. 
  • Consult a doctor – if you feel that you are really struggling to get to sleep then I recommend visiting a doctor and seeing how they can help. 

 

Have you ever experienced night terrors or any other sleep disorder? Do you have any tips you want to share? Leave a comment below! 

 


 

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  1. Beckie says

    January 16, 2018 at 10:51

    This sounds so scary! I’ve always suffered with bad dreams and nightmares since I was a kid but nothing like what you have. The tips sound really good and I hope it eventually goes away for you xxx

    Reply
    • Georgia says

      January 16, 2018 at 12:04

      Oh no, nightmares are just terrifying and Thank you beckie! xxx

      Reply
  2. Simone says

    January 21, 2018 at 23:00

    That sounds scary. I’m aware that night terrors are common in children, but I hadn’t realised they could continue when you’re an adult. That’s good that you’ve found some coping strategies.

    Reply
    • Georgia says

      January 21, 2018 at 23:17

      I actually never suffered with them as a child it is something I have unfortunately developed in my adult life, strange isn’t it! xx

      Reply
  3. Emma says

    July 14, 2019 at 23:55

    I know this is old but wanted to post as i wondered if you were yet to solve your nighr terrors? Your terrors sound as if you are describing mine. Hearing doors, someone at the end of the bed, being covered in spiders. Sometimes even that i am in a full fight. It is my husband i really feel for as i have physically hurt him on numerous occasions where i have attacked him in my sleep. But back to my opener, i ask as having suffered for about 16 years i’m still sat here typing this at midnight because im scared to fall asleep!

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    • Georgia says

      July 21, 2019 at 23:26

      I must admit they have got better these past 5 months. I had tried everything including counselling, hypnotherapy and all sorts. I have found that having peace of mind is so important. Meditation and Yoga have really helped me and also having a small dim lamp next to the bed e.g. a salt lamp. On the rare occasion, I do get them I flick it on and just try and unwind. I would also recommend trying not to worry about going to sleep. I know it’s hard but I think it can make it worse if you fill yourself with anxiety before bed. I have developed a sort of mantra in knowing that nothing can hurt me and if I do wake up my partner insists I wake him up too so he can help me go back to sleep so I don’t sit there and feel shit by myself. A rather large sacrifice but an extremely comforting one for me. Hope you find some peace soon! xx

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  4. Debbie says

    March 9, 2021 at 16:40

    Hi Georgia,
    I know this is old, but do you still have them? I am 27 and they started when I was almost 20. I have tried everything, I can definitely relate to what you have written. Have you got any new advice? I noticed that if I eat fatty foods I have the 100% of possibility to have them.
    Thank you so much.

    Reply
  5. Courtney says

    July 1, 2021 at 03:59

    I have the same thing happen about once a year the past few years It is the scariest thing and afterwards the fear of going to sleep is the worst. Thanks for the tips.

    Reply

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